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In my many years of counselling I have worked with victors and victims. The whiners usually have good health and wealth but cry that fate gave them a lemon; the winners squeeze life’s lemons and make lemonade.

Let me tell you the story of Elena, a very brave women, who has beaten the odds and is a true victor.

Early in the morning you can see her leading her aerobic class at the London downtown Y. Elena is a five foot two, 100 pound dynamo who has a passion for fitness. Her seemingly effortless dance routine reminds one of a ballerina moving to music. Like Mohamed Ali she “floats like a butterfly and stings like a bee”.

Here is her story. Elana’s mother abandoned her when she was but a few days old on the door-step of an orphanage. It was a typical Russian wintery freezing day. Mom didn’t take the time to ring the bell to get assistance.

In the beginning Elana longed for her mom to take her home. It never happened. She was one of 500 children who spent their days in a very strict military like atmosphere. Twenty girls to a room with very few personal amenities One bathroom for her group with the opportunity to shower only on Saturdays.

The dining hall provided adequate meals that were very predictable; every Monday there was borsh and Tuesday kasha. Apples, candy and ice cream were treats that occurred only once a year.

Elena attended classes in her orphanage six days a week from 8-2.30. Study and homework took place from 4-7. Lights out at 9. There were very strict set of rules that you obeyed.

Running around the block allowed her to escape the confines and gave her a sense of salvation. Elena was entered into week end sprints and won the coveted red ribbons. She had found her niche. She was fast, A track coach discovered her talents and she moved into a high school residential program that emphasised sports. There was a scholarship of 50 rubles($1.00) per week. To help pay for her expenses Elena worked in a factory from ten pm. to five am. three days a week.

She persevered at sports and school and represented her country at international meets in the U S of A.

Elana married a the age of 20 and had two daughters. Her husband was killed in a car accident 13 years later. It is hard being a 35 year old single parent in Russia. The economics and political system was not a positive atmosphere to raise her girls.

Two years of applications to the US were successful with an offer to be a baby sitter for a Russian family in Los Angelus . No English, no family, no money; it did not stop her. She had a dream. Like the little heroine, Annie, she could look forward to “tomorrow”.

Elana is a very happy person. “With God’s help she is most fortunate to be a strong spirited women.” No time for regrets or sadness. She is too busy with her aerobic instruction and her family. She has been blessed with two very busy daughters; Anistasia and Marina.

“Mom always has a shoulder for her girls to lean on along with lots of encouragement for them to follow their own paths”.

I asked Elena if her daughters understood what she has gone through? She shook her head and asked: “Do you?’.
Elana is a victor. “What did not kill her made her stronger.” She has a wonderful positive attitude that we all can try to emulate. She is an inspiration to all that have the pleasure to take part in her aerobic classes.

Len Lesser

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